If you can raise your children to like and believe in themselves, and to be interested in life and other people, the rest is detail.Cousin-in-law
Most of the important bits of “educated” are absorbed rather than taught. Schooling and opportunities help, but the slow drip of love and respect from people you love and respect is indispensable.
Answers on a postcard, please, if you have any!
P.S. By amazing coincidence, Happy Birthday CIL!